If not you may want to think about discussing with an attorney about how to legally go about recording phone calls. If you're in a one party recording state, excellent. Familiarize yourself with your local laws regarding the recording of phone calls. Then it will be easily searchable for you. To create a file folder just right click in whatever folder you save documents to and select New > Folder. (So ex: 09142019-1.pdf) and store them all in a file folder with the name of your BSC (Written Conversations with KarenSmith).
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Name your PDF files according to the date the conversation(s) occurred, and the number of the conversation from that day. Make sure to have date and time stamps whenever possible. Print out texts and emails from the BSC, both on paper and as PDFs (most computers will give you the option to print as pdf).
BSC loves nothing more than to raise concerns about the mental and physical health of the family they are targeting, and not even the pets are safe from those kinds of accusations. For pets, get records from the vet that prove they are up to date on their vaccinations and include temperament and behavioral assessments. This includes mental health professionals as well. Ask them for reports on current health status, any medications the family, vaccination records etc. Contact all your family health providers and request physicals for everyone. (Optional) Clear sheet protectors, which are sold in bulk on Amazon and in most office supply stores.A composition notebook (bound pages only, no spirals or other easy torn pages).A binder with an expandable pocket large enough to accommodate a notebook, and a smaller pocket that can accommodate a thumb drive.(Justify, Argue, Defend, and Explain) protocol, i.e.: "Don't argue with pigs, you just get dirty and the pigs enjoy it." How to make one What you'll need: Portions of it can be used to show a flying monkey exactly why you aren't willing to put up with their master or mistress any longer, although that is a personal choice and can often fall under the J.A.D.E. It can be handed over to a police officer or social worker when they walk into your home to perform their version of a welfare check, or it can be submitted into evidence in a court of law. Collectively they are referred to as "The FU Binder" because they are meant to be a giant middle finger right in the face of the person who is abusing official time and resources in an attempt to force you into giving them their way. Well, here's some basic things you can put together quickly either while in the middle of such a situation or (better) before such a thing happens, so that you're prepared for that knock on the door no matter who the knock is attached to. It's enough to make your heart stop, how are you supposed to know what to do? Terrifying isn't it? The thought of having to prove a negative? Even better is when you answer the door and it's a process server handing you papers to appear in court because someone has filed a claim against you for GPR or custody. When we answered it was (official) with (agency) saying they had a report of (various horrible things) and they were here to check on the welfare of (minor or dependent adult)." and it goes from there. You can return to the main forum page and read any number of posts with variations on the theme "We were having a typical day when there was a knock at the door. This can be seen over and over on these boards, and anywhere people dealing with the terminally selfish gather in the form of welfare checks, false cps calls, grandparents rights cases, and even custody battles (if the BSC is or employs the aid of a previously uninterested partner.) Sadly, a very common chapter in the BSC (Bat Shit Crazy) playbook is involving the authorities to help them get you in line. The FU Binder: Why you want one, how to make one, and other steps you can take while putting it all together.
A very helpful tip is to create what is called a FU Binder. An informative response to what happens when someone threatens you with "reporting to authorities" or in fact just anytime that you are dealing with going no contact with a JustNO.